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不要随便牵手,更不要随便放手

Received a mail. just thought of sharing with all of you.

你发现了吗?爱的感觉,总是在一开始时甜蜜,总觉得多了一个人陪,多了一个人帮你分担,你终于不再孤单了,以为至少有一个人想着你,恋着你,不论做什么事情,只要能在一起,就是好的。但是慢慢地,随着认识的加深,你开始发现了对方的缺点,于是问题一个接一个出现,你开始烦、累,甚至想要逃避。有人说爱情就像捡石头,总想捡到一个适合自己的,但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?她适合你,那你又适合她吗? 其实,爱情应该像磨石子,或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么满意,但是请记住,人是有弹性的,很多事情是可以改变的,只要你有心,有勇气,与其到处捡未知的石头,还不如将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨光。你开始磨了吗?很多人以为,是因为感情淡了,人才会变得懒惰,其实人是先被惰性征服,感情才慢慢变淡的。你体会到了吗?其实爱恨往往只在我们的一念之间!爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时,很多事可能只是在于你心境的转变罢了。如果有个人爱上你,而你也觉得她不错,那就得珍惜彼此!我们总说:"我要找一个很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。"但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候,你却无法回答他,因为你自己也不知道。


如果你正在为爱迷惘,下面这段话或许可以给你一些启示:
爱一个人,要了解也叫开解;要道歉也要道谢;要认错也要改错;要体贴也要体谅;要接受而不是忍受;要宽容而不是纵容;是支持而不是支配;是慰问而不是质问;是倾诉而不是控诉;是难忘而不是遗忘;是彼此交流而不是凡事交代;是为对方默默祈求而不是向对方诸多要求。可以浪漫,但不要浪费,不要随便牵手,更不要随便放手。

(p/s: Happy Labor Day!! its a long weekend now.. i bet everyone is looking forward to that! :D so any plan?)

Comments

  1. wah! suddenly mandarin...read till I hin hin... *blek*
    Saturday I'm working half day... *sob sob* sad nia....

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  2. ivy, muahaha..
    oo really.. nvm then, think positively, its only half day.. better than full day!
    happy working!

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  3. I have to wait for my BF to translate it for me, haha!!

    Happy Labour Day too and enjoy the holidays!!

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  4. hey! i duno chinese wor.. hehe
    free,translate for me har..kiddin..
    Happy Labour Day!!

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  5. yoong, opps!i though u know mandarin wo.. :) anyway its a very meaningful article..
    alone, hi there!! :) labor day is over now :(

    ReplyDelete

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