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What is the most annoying thing you hate to hear about yourself?

To me, it's 'You've gained weight, are you pregnant??' =_=

I know people around me is concern whether I'm pregnant after being married for almost a year. Thanks for the concern but hey, gaining weight doesnt really mean pregnant and vice versa!
To be honest, I know I've gained weight lately, probably because of less exercise and late dinner. But unless if I ask you 1st, otherwise, I'd appreciate if you dont give me such question.....

(Sorry, I'm that sensitive on weight :P)


  1. No worries la.. just one year.. still in your honeymoon..:) I endured 6 years of "Are You Pregnant", the most intense being during CNY before my boy came along. ^_^

  2. Inspired Momx1, thanks the comforting words ;)
    But I dont know, perhaps people these days have the mindset of 'the age group of female becoming mummy is getting younger', thats why they're keen to know lo... =_=

  3. haha...very irritating hor. Anyway, these are normal question folks asked.

  4. ChrisAu, yes lo, very irritating =_=

  5. Hehe..I might ask the same question too. Sorry for the irritation.

  6. oh i know how irritating these questions are. just smile and tell them "you will know later" if they ask whether you are pregnant or not.

  7. Shenny's mommy, what do you wanna ask?? :P

    Barb, yea, I'll answer 'soon, soon...' LOL

  8. When I was pregnant, I lose weight wor..hehe..I mean the first few months due to morning sickness.

    Keep you cool..relax..breathe in breathe out. :)

  9. As long as you feel happy about yourself, skinny or otherwise,all things else is not important right?

    now go and makan somemore but exercise is a must ok?

  10. Mummy Gwen, thanks for the concern! breathe in, breathe out.... hehe ;)

    Eugene, yes correct! I just wanna rant it out only :P At least I feel better after that...

  11. U still look awesome. I guess people are curious as usual. Almost all newly wed will be thrown this question, it really is not that much related to ur weight gain or not.

  12. YT, haha if everyone thinks like you, I guess it'll more peaceful ^^
    Have a fabulous day~

  13. LOL, gaining weight is certainly the 1st nemesis for all ladies and all the related question are strictly prohibited! If my hubby told me that I have gain weight(regardless true or not) ot ask me anything about that, I'll give him a big slap!(evil grin)

    If other person... worst! Muahahaha!

    Cheer up Hayley, you always look beautiful in my eyes!

  14. Alice Law, haha, thats very fierce of you! :P
    Thanks for the compliment ;)

  15. Honestly, I gained a few kg lately.... and I don't wish ppl to ask me either. I'm trying to live in denial that I'm still slim to eat heavily.... *roll eyes*

  16. Yvonne, yes, I dont wish to hear that as well.. hahaha :P

  17. Well.. ... Honeymoon 1st, only a year .. me after 2 years only plan for kids .. but what old people said was true sometime, to get kids at yearly age also good geh ....

    very true, i get irritating too when people said i m gaining weight even i already hv 2 kids or i look like i m pregnant ....

    if my hub ever said that .. i will ask him to pass me his credit card and i will find a good and expensive slimming centre ... wkakkaka ... ( evil grin) he dont dare to say !!

  18. I can really feel you. I was there too in your situation before. Remember? I can know how hurt this was to be. Some people has just no tact in the way they speak

  19. Anggie's Journal, I understand, pros and cons of giving birth at the early age.. Its just that I dont like their mindset of 'gaining weight means pregnant' lo... =_=
    Wah, you're so fierce leh :P

    Yan, yaya I remember your situation... =_="

  20. LOL, cool down, dear! It's just natural for most people to ask ladies who have got married not too long ago and then wondering whether she's pregnant or not with even the slightest hint of symptoms. ^_^

  21. Alice Phua, I totally understand what you mean..
    But my biggest concern is, the person asking me that question is someone who is not close to me at all.. =_=

  22. It is human nature to be curious. I think in your case, they are more interested to know if you are pregnant rather than if you have gained weight.

    It took me 5 years to conceive Chloe after marriage so you can imagine myself being asked the SAME question for 5 years! And now that I already have her, I am so often asked "when are you having no.2?" Very malas to layan this kind of questions sometimes...

  23. ChloeRuoyi, I understand! Thats some sorta life cycle ho?
    When you're single, people will ask when are you going to get a bf/gf? When you have one, they will ask when are you going to get married? The list goes on and on...

  24. Not you only ler, I'm also super sensitive on my weight.
    Recently the bf asked me to go back to the gym I felt so bad that he must be complaining that I'm fat!!! :(

  25. Shirlexia, hmm, guess he was hinting something? :P
    But look at the bright side, going to the gym is a good thing also, can sweat ma!


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