Friday, July 26, 2013

Don't compare

Found this so meaningful, too meaningful not to share.

“生活的高度总会有差异,不要去和别人比高,适合自己的就是最好的高度。”

不用艳羡他人,不要输掉自己;
每个人都有不同的高度,你何必仰望别人的高度。
Look up don’t look down. Don’t belittle yourself.


Photo taken from HERE


Such a great quote to remind my friends, and also to myself.

Have a great weekend folks!

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54 comments:

  1. True, very true...

    "Do not compare yourself with others lest we become vain or bitter for always there will be people greater or lesser than yourself." (Desiderata)

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  2. I have friends share his site, motivations and photos from this guys. Owen isn't it?

    Wish you have a nice weekend dear.

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    1. Yea, Owen Yap.

      Thanks and same to you.

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  3. 不用艳羡他人,不要输掉自己;
    每个人都有不同的高度,你何必仰望别人的高度。
    赞~

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  4. LOL你看我这样开朗就知道我从来不跟人家比较的啦哈哈!人比人比死人。
    还有,比上不足,比下有余,总是有人过得好过你,总是有人过得比你不好,知足常乐!做会自己最开心了,不要比~ 赞!
    Happy weekend! 全部人在放假就我在上班!我在等放工LOL

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    1. 没跟你见过面所以不懂你有多开朗,嘻嘻~ xD

      对阿,我在面书也是这样写,人比人比死人!

      哦可怜啦,怎么又没放假呢?

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  5. 叶剑锋很帅!!!!!哈哈(完全离题)
    做自己最开心,因为自己才是独一无二的!

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    1. 哈哈,没关系,我可以了解为什么你会离题! :D

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  6. Look up like that neck pain oh..hehe..just kidding. Great quote! Happy weekend to you.

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    1. Haha, you're very naughty ha...

      Yea, thanks!

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  7. 可是我希望我有170cm 高哦 (完全看错重点,哈哈哈!!)
    知足常乐,Happy go lucky!!

    祝你有个愉快的周末!!

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    1. 哈哈,我也希望 :p

      谢谢你哦~ 你也一样!

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  8. Hi Hayley, hey I really missed you. How you doin'? I too thought you maybe gone galavanting around the world or gone to Yellowknife see the Aurora Borealis.
    Hows Eden? Must be crawling all over or walking now.
    Ok, time for another one, a baby sister for him.

    Re my Blog...I guess it's the security I have that no longer appears in links, due to silent readers.
    And yes, I have been blogging....recently 19 episodes of Irene, took more than 6 weeks.
    Its an updated, unabridged version.
    Happy you dropped by.
    Stay beautiful and keep a song in your heart.
    Lee.

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    1. Hi Lee!

      I am doing fine! Gallivanting the world? Well, you know I really hope so! Haha xD

      Aden, he is getting more and more active! Walking now, going to run soon!
      Haha, sure, a baby sister for him! ^^

      Yea, must be, cause it doesn't detect latest post from you.

      Thanks for the comment and you too, take care!

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  9. 很同意。不去比较,人就会很快乐了!

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  10. sigh, i always looks down on myself, trying to convince myself don't keep compare with people loh~

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    1. Oh, you must not think that way!!

      Jia you!

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  11. a very inspiring quote and i totally agree with the message it is trying to bring.. hmmm, maybe you should translate that for your readers who can't read Chinese.. :p

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    1. very true, just be ourselves and live a life we may.. comparing with others, while sometimes can be good and make improvements, is most of the time giving pressure and negative emotions..

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    2. anyway, i think most importantly is that we do not take too seriously what others see us as.. be open and see the positive sides of feedback then we will be advancing with improvements.. :)

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    3. SK, nowadays got Google translate one ma! :p Plus there's english version ma, I guess my readers understand.

      Yea, most of the time it gives pressures.

      Yep, I always tell myself to think positive!

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  12. We tend to compare but do it positively. That could motivate us to improve ourselves.

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    1. Yea, if really wanna compare, compare the positive way, but I doubt many people would do like that.

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  13. We are all different and unique in our way. Good sharing! Happy weekend!

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  14. 我很喜欢叶主播最近那段share,就是把嫉妒当成是赞扬,嫉妒你的人觉得你比他们优秀,有时不是因为你做得好,而是他们做不到。大力赞赏这金句!

    我不喜欢比较,皆因各有前因莫羡人,你永远不懂别人其实默默付出了多少才有今天的成就。

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    1. 其实他分享的全部我都很喜欢!不管是人生哲学或者是感情的等等,全部都很有意思!
      对阿,所谓你看我好,我看你好。。嘻嘻~

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  15. Thanks for the motivation. It makes me feel better! Never belittle myself.

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  16. 你这个share很有意思,我也是不喜欢比较,最讨厌跟人家比较。所以我其实不喜欢跟大多数人做一样的东西,然后人家就会拿自己的跟你的来比较,很讨厌。又或者,明明我们付出了很大努力才得到这样的成绩,然后有人就会拿来比较,超讨厌。
    做好自己最重要了。

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    1. 对对,我赞成!我觉得不必要去做那些无谓的比较啦!

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  17. Hokkien ~ Lang pi lang ki si lang

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  18. 你的这个标题,我最近很有感触

    不止是自己,我更不喜欢别人拿我们的孩子来比较

    我好久没留言了,但你们的更新,我都尽量不错过 :)

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    1. 对,孩子们的比较更烦咧!
      嗯,你都很忙吼?我差点就要把你的部落删除掉了。。:p

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  19. 对啊,做人一直比较来比较去,很累!
    过得自己就好了。。

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    1. 嗯,干嘛那么累嘛,right?

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  20. Yes agreed. Very meaningful.

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  21. That's what my friend always said to me..."don't look down at yourself!!!"!!! =]

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