Monday, September 1, 2014

不愉快的国庆日

大家的国庆日假期过得如何呢?希望不是好像我这样的那么不愉快 :(

星期六傍晚在准备着要出门吃饭时收到爸爸的来电,说妈妈突然人很不舒服,呼吸很困难而且还哭了起来!
我赶快交待小姑帮忙看顾aden然后就跟老公赶回家载妈妈去医院。

由于是星期六晚上所以我们只想到去apollo私人医院,不过当时也没有专科医生,只有普通的duty 医生,她帮妈妈做了ECG发现妈妈的心脏不怎么好,而且血压标高了,劝我们还是赶快去政府医院吧,拿了入院信之后我们就赶紧载妈妈到政府医院的紧急室。办了登记后护士就推着妈妈进紧急病房等待。

在这里护士也是重复做了两次ECG和抽血,打了两次针,照了心脏xray, 观察血压,然后就要我们等,继续观察看妈妈有没有好转,然后再决定需不需要入院。我记得我们进院的时候是9点钟。

妈妈脸色很不好,还说了些很不吉利的话,交待我说家里的金器和金钱放在哪里等等,当时我的眼泪已经快留下来了不过告诉自己不可以让妈妈看到我哭!我告诉她没事的,别乱想,要给自己正能量,爸爸也是一直跟妈妈说好话,就连住在我妈妈家附近的姑姑和表姐也赶来看,拉住妈妈的手告诉她没事的。

在陪着妈妈的那晚,我看到也感受到很多事情,感触很多。
1。每当我问护士验血结果怎样,医生来了吗,还要等多久时,他们都只回答我‘sekejap'. 我们就是从9点钟开始等到半夜3点才回家。在这6个钟的等待过程,我一开始很生气,生气为什么他们那么慢?到底还要等多久?还有最另我不爽的是,有一两个护士很明显就是看到我们是黄皮肤的关系所以态度非常的不好 >=(
不过后来我其实很佩服这些护士和医生们,整个晚上紧急室的病人全都是进进出出,护士医生们个个手脚没停过。车祸的,年老的,小朋友生病等等,真的是一个接一个。
我在想当护士和医生真的不容易,不管什么时候什么状况都得在忙。

2。整个晚上我听到救护车的警笛是超过5次,顿时觉得人生真的得经过生老病死吗?那天看妈妈都没事很精神的,而且最近也没听她说呼吸困难什么的,怎么会那么突然?
所以说,生活就是有很多完全预料不到的事情。

妈妈打了两次针还是没什么好转,后来医生看了全部的报告,说妈妈的心脏,验血结果和xray都很好没什么。经过再一次的询问和了解,医生觉得是妈妈胃酸的关系而导致胸口闷闷紧紧的,所以呼吸才不顺畅。

后来医生确定妈妈不需要入院,给了些药我们就可以回家了。

隔天睡醒第一件事就是打电话回家问问妈妈的情况。妈妈说吃了药有睡着,早上睡醒有感觉好了一点,我才放心些。和老公吃了早餐就回妈妈家了,看到妈妈气色有好些了,谢天谢地啊!
希望医生开的药适合妈妈,也希望妈妈快快痊愈!
老天爷,不如你拿走我身上20公斤的肉来换取我爸妈的健康吧!

就这样,今年的国庆日很不愉快 =(

38 comments:

  1. Eh ....translate leh ..I'm banana !

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  2. Do take care, Hayley. Hope your mother feels better soon.

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  3. 生命无常,希望你妈妈早日康复,吉人自有天相,你不要担心太多

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  4. 都说要正能量了,不要那么忧心,祝伯母早日康复!

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  5. So sorry to hear the sad news. God bless your mum and help her through all this, hope she gets well and back on her feet again soonest. You take care too, and all the rest in the family.

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  6. 哇佬!妳酱小只还拿走20公斤?不要玩啦,姐姐!
    Glad to hear your mom feels better. You gotta stay strong for your mom. If you cry, she will be more worried (even thought she is the one who is sick). Take care ya ;)

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  7. Hayley, so sorry to hear that your mum was taken ill and it was so traumatic for you. Yeah, when something like this happens to our parents, we are sure to be very alarmed and sad. Glad that your mum is much better now. Take care and pray. God listens and will always help.

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  8. 可以的话,找多点时间陪她,虽然表面上不会帮到什么,但至少她心里是很开心的,相信我!

    希望你妈妈早日康复!

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  9. Not so sure what posted but looking at the comments, it is something about your mum.

    Hope she is alright now. Speedy recovery. You take care and be strong for her.

    God bless you all.

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  10. 人生无常,希望安娣早日康复,健康长寿。

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  11. 祝福你妈妈早日康复,健康平安!

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  12. 希望你妈妈早日康复!你也要好好照顾自己!

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  13. Very sorry to hear that, and I can understand how you feel that evening. I have gone through almost the same thing twice.
    By the way, you are right to stay positive and strong. Give yourself a pat on the shoulder.

    You will appreciate life and be grateful more after seeing your mum struggling through the very crucial hours. Every one must learn to smile more and stress less.

    By the way, I want to laugh at this sentiment when I read this "老天爷,不如你拿走我身上20公斤的肉来换取我爸妈的健康吧!"

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  14. 没事了没事了。。祝你的妈妈健健康康的。。你也要抽时间多陪陪她啊。。

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  15. 祝你早日康复,健健康康的!你们一定要多灌输正能量给妈妈哦,加油!

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  16. 你说apollo我想到北海的巴刹~
    幸好没事,希望你妈妈平平安安、健健康康的!

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  17. 希望你妈妈身体健康!!

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  18. Hayley, Yannie related this post of yours to me. The experience was scary and traumatic. Hope your mother is recovering well now. Do take care and be positive, ya!

    p/s: I think my comment earlier had gone missing.... long time no use blogger, kekeke

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  19. 還好現在有好轉了。
    突如其來的消息還真的讓人焦慮和擔心。
    希望過多幾天修養 伯母精神會更好。
    加油。

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  20. Dear Hayley, I hope aunty is feeling much better now. You too must take care yourself.

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  21. Oh gosh! Wish your mom speedy recovery! Take care of her and yourself ya..

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  22. surely not a good merdeka long weekend for you huh?? but I guess the incident also inspired you a lot of things, and let you think of the meaning of life and how you can lead a more meaningful one..

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    1. I'm truly sorry to hear about your mum being admitted to the hospital.. but at the same time glad that she is now feeling better and probably already recovered??

      I know maybe I should not say this, but then this incident actually told your mum as well as your family to be more aware of her health as anything could have happen.. put it the positive way perhaps, as we aged we start to see problems coming so with this glitch in your mom's health which was noticed earlier, it's a message sent to remind everyone to look at health more seriously.. :)

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    2. I have been through these with my late mum and now my dad is also getting old, but it's not something unnatural so we just have to face it.. 不幸中的大幸 was that your mum's case was some gastric problem, and bravo to you!! you were actually staying strong and at the same time thinking from a positive perspective.. what you saw may bother many of us (as this is nothing uncommon here), but you tried to put yourself in the shoes of others and gave it a good thought.. not many can do the same like you.. you are great!! :)

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    3. anyway, guess you shall be busy taking care of Aden as well as your mum these few days.. a speedy recovery to your mum and also hope Aden be a good boy not to give you too much hard time, hehe!! :)

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  23. I think as children parents leaving us are what we really fear...

    But anyway I'm glad your mum is ok! I know a lot of time gastric pain always causes a lot of problem one, I have a friend who is always like that. So don't worry! :)

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  24. 祝你妈妈早日康复!真的现在真的要多多留意家里的老人家。

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  25. I'm sorry, I don't read chinese but from the comments I think it's regarding your mom. I'm glad she is better and please, stay strong and take care there Hayley.

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  26. Oh, good that it is just reflux and not heart attack. May aunty get well soon!!!!

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  27. 坏的去,好的来,take care!
    希望伯母早日康复,身体健康!

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  28. 伯母很快会康复的,你也要照顾好自己啊~

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  29. I pray for your mum's recovery to be faster and healthier again. This is life we all have to go through and I had my share of many sleepless nights & worries too. We love our parents, that's why we care for them too. Stay strong and positive.

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  30. 家里父母亲生病是令人担忧不少,也幸好你住的近可以照料,像我就相隔遥远就会有点困难。

    无论如何,祝福伯母身体健康!

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  31. Thanks for the concern and wishes everyone, my mum is feeling better but still a bit tired due to the medicines effects. You guys take good care too, and must be alert all the time. Pray for health for all of us.
    谢谢大家的关心,感恩。妈咪好点了,只不过还是有点累。不管怎样希望大家也多多注意自己和家人的健康~

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