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Just an update

Hi my dear readers! Do you miss me? ;)

About 10 more days and my confinement is done! But most probably I will extend to 40 days cause I heard that's the best... So far, confinement is okay for me.. I got to rest alot and enjoyed most of my meals and the confinement aunty prepares most of the stuff, best of all I get to order hubby to do this and that like a queen, kakakaka :D

But of course the hardest part is to cope with the oily smelly scalp and hair... =_=
So far I've only bath once during the 12th day and I scrub my scalp like nobody's business that time, to me shower never felt so good!! Now I have to wait til baby's fullmoon to enjoy my shower again.

As for Aden, he is becoming naughtier and 'smarter'.. Sometimes he cries and screams so loud for milk until the whole family come to see what's wrong, LOL. The only peaceful moment is when he is sleeping ;)
But one thing I am happy about is that he has started to drink more and poo more since last week (He was quite 'weak' during the first 2 weeks due to prolong jaundice).
The nurse came this morning to check on him and he has gained another 400grams! ;)

At the mean time I am learning how to be a good mum because I know I will be on my own when the confinement aunty leaves.

Alright I guess that's all for today! I know it's the school holidays now, wishing all of you happy holidays and happy weekend! ^_*


  1. Being a mother is the greatest gift. Since you are not working, u can always be a good mum taking care of ur lil prince Aden to the fullest. Give Aden the best you can. Mei you can do it.

  2. yup miss u..
    I guess that now you have more responsible task to do now..
    I am glad to hear ur baby is doing fine...
    Have a great weekend to you...

  3. good to hear that you are enjoying your time although things are tough... and no shower???... oh geez idk what will i do if i were in ur shoes... enjoy and have more fun hun


  4. We sure miss you. How the time flies. In few more days you are out from the confinement. Yeap, I also hate the hair part. heheeh!

  5. yeah, for sure everyone miss you lah.. and you have not shown us baby Aden yet.. i think he is growing up healthily and you'll sure have a hard time coping with his "naughtiness and smartness", haha!!

  6. Yeah...been missing you dear :) I think you extend your confinement to 40 days is a good idea.

    I have no doubt in my mind you will be a good mum. Take care dear.

  7. I'm sure you will be a great mommy :) Enjoy the process although it is quite tiring.. Gambateh!!

  8. Hang on there... 10 days will come and go in no time :) I do understand the discomfort of smelly/itchy scalp. I absolutely couldn't stand it and was close to insanity so I curi2 washed my hair on the 15th day when my MIL (who was "confinement lady") went home for a while :p

  9. Enjoy your confinement month....I believe you enjoy your motherhood alot..

  10. Good to hear everything is going well. We indeed miss your blog articles.


  11. i understand the feeling of being a queen in front of your husband now, but being the slave of your prince then. 40 days more to go, good luck :)

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  12. Hi Hayley, congratulations on your beautiful baby. It's a boy, year of the Dragon too. He's cute, and nice name too.

    Wow, you really following that ritual not having shower, whatever? Must be an old tradition or custom?
    Anyway, all my very best wishes to you, hubby and Aden.

  13. Morning...So good to hear all these positive progress...Don't worry my will make an excellent mother. My wife didn't follow the `no shower' rule..hahaha..she could not stand it. We managed to convince our confinement lady to let her take bath every other day but washing hair lar...That one, I think once every week.....

  14. Good to know you enjoy your confinement meals and days. Extending to 40 days is a wise decision. By the time, you are out of your confinement, I will be away for holiday already. You take care.

  15. Learn as much as possible while the CL is around :) and not to worry much as you'll be a pro in reading Aden's body languages and cries, as you are his mom~

  16. Hi Hayley, congratulations on the birth of your baby boy! Glad to know you are enjoying your confinement period. Enjoy the 'pampering' while there is still time! Take care! :-)

  17. challenging myself to wait till full moon for my next bath too after the one during 12th day of confinement~gambateh!!

  18. Hi Hayley, sure miss you, I am sure you will be a dutiful mother, baby Aden is so cute, by the way, I have a blog giveaway, do visit my blog for more details, I am giving away VCD and DVD.

  19. glad that Aden's doing well. Keep up the good work and do take good care of yourself too OK?

  20. haha confinement is really suffering for me. Try use hair dryer to blow your oily scalp before you use the dry shampoo. Else the oil stick with the dry shampoo and make it even worst :) Take care ya.

  21. Hi, sure miss u la, heh, thanks for still finding time to drop by my blog :)

    Well, if u had time and budget u should extend ur confinement period , i think is good for u . Actually old folk say we need to pantang for 100 days la , but usually after 1 months .. mostly back to old style edy ... hahah ... so extend to 40 days was a good way ..i agreed .

    rest well, eat well , BF well :)

  22. 对!就算我是自己照顾bb的,我也觉得坐月最辛苦的还是不可洗澡不可洗头,尤其是洗头那里真的很geli,很油腻很臭!


  23. I still cant imagine if I in confinement ~ cannot wash hair blarrrrr blarrrrr those thing~

    but we can stay in aircon room izit?
    right right right!!????(eyes blinking) XD

  24. Hey pretty mama, glad to hear that u r doing well...

    Sorry lately a bit lazy, so I din check out blogs as often :P

    Take good care and count down to ur shower day :D

  25. You are a wonderful mommy :) Enjoy your confinement and staying at home with Aden :)

  26. Hope you enjoy your full moon bash soon! Have a happy confinement!

  27. yes! miss u so much XD

    post more ur baby photo hahaha

  28. Hi HayLey,

    Glad to hear Aaden starts to show sign of active activity. That's good. Nevermind about the oily hair. It's for your own good. How does it feel to be a queen? I'm sure it was nice right. I treated my wife like a queen too when she was on confinement and now? Hehehe...I still treat he like a queen. Nothing changes.

    Thanks for the holiday wish. We in Sarawak are celebrating Gawai Dayak.


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早上都在忙家务忙孩子和载大宝上学。  下午得哄小宝睡午觉~ 还要兼顾我的网卖生意。 不过最近的他好像不爱睡午觉了耶!如果他没睡我就更不得空了!得陪他玩~  话说玩不到一下下就得出门载Aden回家了~~ 每个星期的两个傍晚我都会上tabata课,一下课就回家继续当‘佣人’ xD
晚上就是陪/教Aden做功课,有时间的话就看看AOD的香港连续剧(话说最近的连续剧都不好看!)  过后就要给孩子们睡觉啦!  每天大概就是这样过,几乎都在做同样的事,都是围绕着家庭和孩子。  不过忙归忙,累归累,我觉得都是值得的啦!  当了全职妈妈5年,没后悔过 ^^

 近两个星期的天气都很糟~ 想不到可以去哪个游泳池(之前去到酒店游泳池已经不开放给外人了 T_T),所以干脆在家玩玩水就好~ 还好这几天开始有下雨了,要不然真的要发热气了!

 上周末大宝的幼儿园老师举办动物园半日游,我第一时间报名 :p (当然是先问Aden意愿啦) 虽然上学半年多了,很多时候他还是比较内向/慢热。这次就让他和老师朋友出外郊游。原本想和他一起去,还好我没有!想说借这机会让他独立独立 =)

 老师拍的照片~  看了都感觉很热很热对吧?  一说到动物园,我第一形象就是热!xD

 去载他的时候都没什么,老师也没有complain xD  问他开心吗,他说开心,看到很多动物,还说谁谁谁跌倒,谁谁谁的妈妈有去等等~  看来是很enjoy啦!

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 久久晒一下夫妻两的照片 :p  我们还是一样,无穿无烂 :p 只是最近的他晒黑了很多!没办法啦!太阳公公太热情了,而老公也得出外做工养活啊~ (
辛苦你了老公) 话说我好像很少在这里提起我家abang的ho?哈哈!
不知不觉都认识了14年,当夫妻已有8年。  两公婆开心的时候有,不开心的时候也不少呵呵~  不过这也算正常吧?毕竟要两个不同背景的人要走在一起组织一个家庭不容易,难免会有意见不合争吵什么的~  我觉得最重要还是要互相体谅和多沟通啦!这样才能长久~ right? =)

 从早忙到晚的我,真的很需要好好保养和调理身体~  感恩我遇见…