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转载分享:寶寶帶給你的20個變化

寶寶會改變你的生活——幾乎每個人都這樣警告你。

當然,你的金錢(和睡眠)會縮水,肩上的責任也重了很多。

可是,當你的世界的中心從自己轉到寶寶身上之後,你也迎來了很多令你驚喜的變化:

1. 你在自己身上發現了以前從沒意識到的強大精神力量。

2. 雖然懷孕增加的體重還剩下5千克怎麼也減不下去,可是你無怨無悔

3. 你再也不需要鬧鐘了,寶寶現在為你設定了時間表。

4. 你對自己的父母有了全新的尊敬和熱愛。

5. 寶寶的任何痛苦都比你自身的痛苦更讓你難以忍受。

6. 你不介意在周五晚上9點鐘早早上床睡覺。

7. 你更容易傷感。

8. 你發現自己可以因為寶寶的一顆小牙而津津樂道,說個沒完。

9. 你現在會從鏡子裡仔細看寶寶,而不是你自己。

10. 你不再厭惡小孩子的大小便,事實上,你還會著迷上癮呢(太棒啦,拉臭臭了!)。

11. 你原來以為要為寶寶做出的犧牲現在看來似乎不值一提了。

12. 終於,你開始關注自己的身體了。

13. 你發現寶寶的安撫奶嘴簡直充滿魔力!

14. 碰見有父母帶著哭鬧不已的寶寶時,你不再露出“你們就不能讓他住嘴?”的厭惡表情,而是深有同感地望著他們。

15. 即使上班會遲到,你也要抽空來親一親、抱一抱你的寶寶。

16. 你認識到自己原來可以愛一個完全陌生的人而且是自己孕育的。

17. 你發現洗個澡已經是奢侈享受,更別提去髮廊做頭髮了。

18. 因為抱著寶寶,你終於有機會和陌生的鄰居交談了。

19. 你發現自己曾經認為很重要的事情現在變得毫無意義了。

20. 有寶寶的日子每天都有新的驚喜。


(说的一点也没错!!)

Comments

  1. It's a BIG sacrifice but as the years pass and you look back, it is worth every minute, every second and you would not want to miss all that for the world... Every parent would go through the same and this is the crucial time that will determine how the kid(s) turn out eventually.

    Child upbringing is no longer like in the old days - just give birth to them and let them play among themselves...and they'll be fine. Times have changed...

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    1. STP, you can read chinese?

      Yep, parenthood is not easy at all! But it's a phase everyone would go through, and as long as our kids are growing healthily and happily, nothing else matters ;)

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    2. I am shocked that STP reads Chinese! I remember he is a big banana from Sibu.

      Errrr.... I am a banana too.

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    3. Yalo, may be it's the Google translate la! Hehe...

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    4. By the way TM, this post is about '20 changes that a baby brings' to all parents, especially the mum ;)

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  2. well, I got to go to translate site.

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    1. I understand how you feel. I had gone through those. Anyway, it's great to be a parent so enjoy every single minute of your baby's life.

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    2. Yea, you are a mother I am sure you understand~

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  3. So trueee!!!
    20 mins soaking in the bath tub is like a short vacation! LOL
    Anyway, parenting is meaningful yeah?

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    1. Haha yea, I also long for a 20 mins bath spa xD
      Yep, it's tiring but meaningful and rewarding la!

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  4. I can barely read Chinese, but from my limited knowledge, raising a child is never easy as sacrifices have to be made.

    The current me can't stand disobedient children, and I'm not sure how I'm going to manage when I've become a mother in the future myself.

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    1. Oh I also cannot stand disobedient kids, so must educate them well from the beginning.

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  5. 真的,当了妈就像变了超人酱

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    1. 对!所以世界上是有super woman的哦~

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  6. Hayley, I barely read any of the Chinese words here. Rouhgly know the meaning. You know lar, I have limitation in Chinese.

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    1. For me, visit salon and a spa really make me feel relief and relax... Whatever it is - We are always Super Mom

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    2. Yes I know...

      But you are right, we are all super mum!!

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  7. 说的好对!!!
    哈哈,妈妈都是super woman

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  8. Out of these 20 items, I agree with 你發現自己曾經認為很重要的事情現在變得毫無意義了。

    Last time, I love watching TVB drama to bits. I must watch every night without failed. Ever since my baby was born, and from that day onwards, I stopped watching TVB dramas all together in those few years.

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    1. Yes I can relate to that!
      Now, I'll only watch those dramas if it's really interesting.. That also I need about a month to finish the whole drama cause time isn't enough~

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  9. Thanks for sharing. I like this "你原來以為要為寶寶做出的犧牲現在看來似乎不值一提了。"

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  10. 我承认我没有看完,因为我没有小孩..............
    但是还是要来留言,人家有看啦!XD

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    1. 嘻嘻,还是要谢谢你的留言啦~

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  11. laughing at the quote: 太棒啦,拉臭臭了!

    XD XD XD I beh tahan la lol . . . especially having lunch then suddenly one of my niece or nephew say wanna pang sai -.-

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  12. 我,我,我。。还没有孩子,体会不到,哈!

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    1. 你现在记住。。以后你就了解了,呵呵~

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  13. 赞成,我没有小孩啦,哈哈。但是这些事都在我那3个侄儿身上体会到,所以很同意啦^^

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    1. 嗯,那改次你自己当妈了应该没什么问题啦!

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  14. Yup...with a baby things changes a lot

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    1. LOL...i do agree on 17....berak also no time

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    2. Haha yes, berak also no time, or have to carry baby into the toilet lo!

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